Heartbreak
is an emotional defeat, the overwhelming sorrow, grief, or disappointment,
especially because of love, and love isn't just the feeling nurtured between
your companion and you, it's universal, a tender feeling towards any
person or thing.
When
these emotional pain brings you to your knees, put your chin up. Well, easier
said than done, but that it, God doesn't help you by providing life without any
obstacle.
"I
had gone through the web, looking for help. But it all are plain text, I am,
myself need to move on." It's good to see lot had gotten over it, because
it is depend on oneself, not another. Even how hard the society, your loved
one, or your friend tried to motivate you, without any effort from you, you
just start pitying yourself, how pathetic is that?
A
mental breakdown may even lead to suicide, the worst case scenario - part of it
happens indeed. There are cases where they abandon the one they used to love,
just as part of the price to reconcile back their own self. I once found it
stupid, annoying and heartless. I thought they were that weak until they are
not able to take care their life, even I didn't know the episode of their life
that evoked a tearful reaction. The impression I did just make they look the
worst, which turn out I am the one who heartless.
What
happens after all the hard work, pail of tears to stand up again?
I
know, it's not easy to bounce back from heartbroken, it's NOT easy. Kelly
Clarkson, Stronger's lyrics, "what doesn't kill you makes you a fighter,
foot step even lighter..." If, you are those who don't hold grudges,
those who learn to embrace what they had faced.
You
will learn how to trust others, not only blindly trusting of them, well may be
improve your poor social life. You learnt how to motivate yourself
quickly, it's because you learnt the art of letting go, let go the person you
loved. You forgive those who leave you behind. Isn't they said, the
best teacher is Mr. Experience?
The
heartbroken experiences are just another way to teach you how to be
patient. Surprisingly, you will become stronger than you imagine, you
found out another realistic view of life. You'll appreciate more those people
who still stand by your side.
This,
after all, doesn't happen to all of us. Some people, hold the pain in their
chest without even aware about it, and causing them to hate others more. It's
just, the times we think about our past, there is a story we loved, we hate now
and love the episode that we hated. Heartbreak makes a person more mature,
doesn't it? Then, it may be for the best!
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| there is an emotion that made me reconsider the situations of the people that I see every day
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